Must Read : One of the Best Mails I have Fwd till date.....

Same goes / is true at many other situations. Many of us will go and shout at temple management, charity places etc etc but have never done a smallest contribution specially in terms of Kar Seva. In sr citizens group which I run those who r most complaining r ones who have never ever given a dime or time. But there have been few other who do a lot but never say a word.
 
About Tholiya Bhavan:
Many come and tell me about building, how to manage etc etc but have never ever done themselves any thing like that.
Everyone expects big share of pie from a property / asset ( even more then their legal share) but never ever bothered to check ( appreciation and not superfluous is far fetched) what meant giving since 1991 ( when dadaji left) in to saving/ salvaging/ maintaining / keeping it encroachment free/ facing worst kind of tenants/ running to police/ fighting cases/ facing several authorities, paying thru borrowed money ( and have paid heavy interest on same) on personal account and spending on co owned property , replying to any number of notices from municipal corporation, without any failure paying municipal taxes twice a year, paying talati taxes every year, paying bill of water of tenets for decades as same was done by earlier landlord so it becomes part of package of rent, repairing fallen gate, fencing, plaster, pipe lines, cables, repairing broken sewage chambers, gutter pipe lines, collecting rent,handling bank account etc etc ..
The salary to this  part time work by Sandhya madam, her assistant , their travel to various depts. for property related issues, applying for up to date records from various depts., doing hundreds of time Xeroxing, filing, attending various officials, tenants, listening to all kind of abuses of Chadda and tantrums of purohit and I C Jain etc ..
Twice I have spent on flower bed on gutter / SWD (storm water drain) on 10 th rd only to see that stalls don't come there. Earlier fighting with many attempts are old stories. Now taking out permission from most corrupt BMC was itself a big task and expensive. Then arrange workers, store water which is scarce in our building as there is no underground storage tank, etc etc .. Now Continuously I have to arrange for watering, soil, cleaning ( as fool citizens dump their puja ke phool, waste, spit , plastic bottles in flower beds. If u plant good plants they will take it away, if u plant flower plant they will pluck flowers etc etc .. U keep managing and they keep destroying.
Next door Milap Bhavan had manipulated records to take away FSI of ours. They were to build one more floor. Being socially active I got a tip. Day and night I had to run to city survey records dept , arrange for resurvey, reamed/ restore  the plan which they had forged ( I still have copy of forged and fresh )and get the records set straight.
Last time when a thought had come to sell building I had seen scores of agents, builders, made several visits to them, spent money on Xerox which they wanted ( and for that u have to take out all latest certified copies from various depts. which costs in thousands ( Arun had done that once only from BMC and collected money back from me but does TB has funds??? ) so who paid ?? Did anyone tried to find.
Dhobi has made hundreds of attempt to make a pucca structure but I had to run here and there to stop it. Purohit is trying with the guns to be fired from Chadda's shoulder to build a car parking shade.
 
Many attempt of making use for commercial purpose (  like by Jitu Arora) , etc creating false records in election office, ration office etc etc had to be fought by me to see that our building is kept/ and records of building is kept clean from illegal claims.
Dhobi on purpose did not pay assessment  for long for his hut . BMC issued notice for auction. In auction one of his person would have taken same. BUC is so naïve they did not issue  any notice to landlords ( this is being hand in glove). But again due to some contacts and gods wish I came to know and had to wage war to stop auction . One day legally they would have lost but not before 20 years fight in High court costing lacs. And what BMC officials would have lost? Nothing. They would retire by then. But we would be stuck with fansi in our neck. (Correspondence to all this is there in our files).
 
All this I am writing as some one remarked recently that alok does nothing and sitting idle to coach xyz .
But it takes life out of you to manage a tenanted property with no support from anyone except me and my staff. All other want to enjoy just the fruits.
Many other episodes but as is rightly said "samajhdar ko isahara kafi hai"
Worst is a case of Saburi building and takes more time and energy but why I am not saying anything here about sad drama of Saburi is as it is mine so my funeral and in which no one else would have  interest to listen.
 
This is a trailer and is sufficient to understand in the context of the story given down here by Sushamajiji.
 
 


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Hi, This is one of the best forwards I have recd till date. This should be read by each & every parent Best regards Santosh One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company. He passed the first interview, the director conducted the last interview, to make the final decision. The director discovered from the resume that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way,from school until post graduation,he never had a year when he did not score. The director asked, "Did you get any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none". The director asked, "Was it your father who paid for your school fees?" The youth answered,"My father passed away when I was a year old,it was my mother who paid for my school fees. The director asked, "Where did your mother work?" The youth answered, "My mother washes clothes - she is a clothes cleaner. The director requested to see the youth's hands.The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect. The director asked, "Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes?" The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than I can. The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.* The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went home, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the son. The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tears fell to the ground as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so rough and wrinkled, and there were so many bruises. Some bruises were so painful that his mother winced when they were cleaned with water. This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fees. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future. After finishing the cleaning of his mother's hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother. That night, mother and son talked for a very long time. Next morning, the youth went to the director's office. The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: "Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday at home?" The youth answered, "I cleaned my mother's hands, and also cleaned the remaining clothes' The Director asked, "please tell me your feelings." The youth said, Number 1, Without my mother, there would not be the successful me today. Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done. Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship. The director said,"This is what I am looking for,to be my manager. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life.You are hired. Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates.Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously. Children, who have been protected and habitually given whatever they wanted, develop "entitlement mentality" and always put themselves first.They are ignorant of their parent's efforts. When they start working, they assume that every person must listen to them, and when they become a manager, they would never know or understand the sufferings or struggles of their employees and will always blame others for things gone wrong. People, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but will not feel a sense of achievement. They will complain and grumble and always want or fight for more. If we are such protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying our children instead?* Let your kids live in a big house, eat good meals,learn piano,watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. To make our children successful, it is very important for children to learn to appreciate the efforts of others, experience hard work and difficulties and learn how to work with others to get things done. It will cost 38 TRILLION Dollar to create OXYGEN for 6 Months for Human beings on EARTH. "TREES DO IT FOR FREE..." 'Respect them, Save them' SANTOSH